Family Stories: James and Pearl Barnes

In the third installment of the family stories series, we are sharing memories of Jonathan's maternal great-grandparents, James and Pearl Barnes. The story is told from the perspective of Jonathan's sister, Julie.

James Arther Barnes was born on April 1, 1904 and died on May 29, 1995. Pearl Fortner Barnes was born on August 22, 1906 and died on May 10, 2000. They were married for 77 years. Their love for each other and their love for their family and God made them the happiest two people I have ever known.

Each Sunday, my family would visit Mommie and Daddy Barnes in Blackland. They lived in a two-story house owned by Vester Coats. They were sharecroppers who lived and worked someone else's land for most of their lives, but they were always happy.

When I was seven, Mommie and Daddy Barnes bought an FHA home in Jumpertown, Mississippi. This was the first home they had ever owned. The joy and happiness on the faces of my great-grandparents was indescribable. They finally had a home of their own. I can remember going to their house and having Sunday dinner with all of the family. There was always a lot of family there, because my mother has four sisters and four brothers.

My great-grandparents had lived in the little house in Jumpertown for several years when Daddy Barnes passed away in 1995. Mommie Barnes moved into a nursing home in Corinth, Mississippi a few years later. I remember her telling me that she just wanted to see her little house once more time before she died. She was so proud of it and so happy the day they moved in.  I'm glad my great-grandparents were able to have a home of their very own, even if it was only for a short time. It brought so much happiness and joy to their lives.

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Family Stories: William Andrew Cannon

Bill, his wife Lucy and two of his three granddaughters, Crystel and Lauren.

We are excited to share  a new series on the blog called Family Stories. We hope that by telling these stories, we'll help keep these precious memories alive for generations to come. The second story is about my paternal grandfather, William Andrew Cannon.

William Andrew Cannon was born on August 25, 1920 (he would have been 93 this Sunday!) in Sweeny, Texas, but he was longtime resident of Mississippi. He passed away on February 28, 2002 after a brief illness.

Bill, as he was known to family and friends,  was the devoted husband of Lucy de Forcade de Biaix, a member of the Italian aristocracy, whom he married on the Isle of Capri in 1945; the loving father of a son, Fred, and a daughter, Tina Jennie, and the proud grandfather of Carlo, Crystel, Francesco, Elena, Lauren and Guglielimo.

Bill graduated from Corinth High School in Corinth, Mississippi in 1938 and attended the Western Kentucky University School of Business in Bowling Green from 1938 to 1941. He became a managing partner of the Van Bibber Lumber Plant in Fulton, Mississippi, after college and later joined the United States Air Force to serve in World War II.

Billy and his children, Fred and Tina.

He served his country with pride and distinction during World War II as a pilot, stationed in Foggia, Italy, from 1943 to 1946. He held the rank of 1st Lieutenant with the 463rd Bombardment Group of the United States 15th Air Force, and during this perilous time, he and other members of the 463rd Bombardment Group exhibited commendable skill, devotion, courage and determination, flying gallantly through in wing formation to reach designated targets while facing intense enemy opposition over the skies of Germany and Eastern Europe.

After receiving an honorable discharge in May 1946, Bill was the recipient of the Second Presidential Unit Citation for his extraordinary heroism and outstanding performance of duty in military operation against the enemy at Ploesti on May 18, 1944, and at the Daimler Benz Tank Works in Berlin on March 24, 1945. Upon his discharge from the United States Air Force in 1946, he returned to the Van Bibber Lumber Plant in Fulton, Mississippi, serving as a partner until 1954. On June 11, 1949, he and his wife, Lucy, welcomed their son, Fred.

He joined the United States Department of Defense in 1955 in Naples, Italy, where he worked as Maintenance Control Engineer for Public Works at the Naval Support Facility where he received many honors for his outstanding service. On October 31, 1955 in Naples, he and Lucy welcomed their daughter, Tina Jennie.

Bill with Fred and Lucy. 

In 1983, he joined the Naval Communications Mediterranean as Facility Manager, retiring from that position on March 31, 1990. Having received numerous awards for active service, Bill was also the recipient of the Department of the Navy's Meritorious Award for Civilian Service at the time of his retirement, and he also received a commendation certificate for 38 years of devoted service to the United States government. Shortly after, he and Lucy returned to Mississippi, where they lived happily together for the remainder of Bill's life. 

Bill's courageous patriotic leadership, ethics and integrity, congenial nature, constructive attitude, dedication to his country and forthright manner made a positive impact on those who had the pleasure of knowing him.

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Collections: Birds

Birds have been popular in home design throughout history. In our home, most of our birds are mid-century hand-me-downs from Joan and her mother, Elsie. Regardless of a home's style (vintage, rustic, traditional or modern), birds add a touch of whimsy. Here are some easy ways to incorporate birds to your home decor:

1. Pick up some bird books from your local bookstore. 2. Visit Etsy and search for birds. There are thousands of options from jewelry to art to ceramics to crafts. 3. Ceramic birds and linens are easily sourced from flea markets, antique malls and estate sales. If you prefer new, Anthropologie often carries cute options. 4. Attend local art sales to search for artists who use birds in their work. 5. Purchase bird-inspired stationery. You can order our bird stationery here. 6. Visit your local garden center to shop for yard art or a wind chime that features birds. If you prefer the real thing, you might consider a bird feeder, house or bath.

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For more bird inspiration, visit our Going to the Birds Pinterest Board.

Do you use birds in your home decor?

Family Stories: Elzie Hardin Brinkley

Recently Jonathan's mother and sister shared some family stories with us that were so lovely that we decided to share them on the blog in a series of posts called Family Stories. We hope that by telling these stories, we'll help keep these precious memories alive for generations to come. The first story is about Gerald's mother (and Jonathan's great-grandmother), Elzie Mae Cooper Hardin Brinkley.

Elzie died on November 11, 1975, so she never met any of her great-grandchildren. She dearly loved her only grandchild, Jonathan's father, Greg.

When Greg was a little boy, he lived across the dirt road from his grandmother. Both of his parents worked, so he stayed with his grandmother every day. Each morning, he would put an egg in his pocket, walk across the road and his "Mommie" would cook his egg for breakfast.

One morning he fell down on his way to her house. Thinking his egg was destroyed, he was crying when he arrived at his grandmother's door. Elzie dried his tears, took the egg out of his pocket, wiped it clean and then cooked it for breakfast. Thinking back, Greg still isn't sure whether she was able to save his egg, or if she cooked one of hers just to make him feel better.

Elzie was a patient and kind woman who never raised her voice to her grandson and always turned a bad day into a good one. She cared for him with such a deep love that Greg said he can still feel the love she showed him every day. His childhood with her was one of the most important times in his life and shaped the person he became. Although his own children never met their great-grandmother, they know her love because he cares for them with the same type of love and generosity she always showed him.

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