Family

Family Stories: Joan Fay Stroup

There are few people who have had more influence on my life than my grandmother Joan. She and I shared a middle name as well as a special bond from the day I was born. I arrived during an especially dark period in her life. Her husband and true love was dying of cancer at only 50 years old. When he passed away weeks before my first birthday, the gaping hole he left behind could not be filled, but she found joy in spending time with her only daughter and first granddaughter. I'm not sure if our bond was born from that devastating loss or if it came from something else. Ironically, she shared a similar connection with her grandmother Laura, and it is Laura's name that comes before Fay to make up my middle name. I like to think those names and the relationships that were attached to them served as a starting point for the role they would play in my life. Perhaps they are part of the reason I'm here today, focusing on a business that carries her name and sharing these images from her childhood. I'm in the progress of getting these printed and framed to hang on the family wall in our new house. I have so many pictures that I think we may have more than one family wall, but that's okay because I prefer family photographs to most other artwork anyway. They are so special to me. joan1

Baby Joan in 1934

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Joan with her beloved dog, Sandy.

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Joan (on the right) with a friend.

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Those curls...

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Posing with her tennis racket.

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With her brother Bob.

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With Bob and her older sister Betty.

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Baby Joan with Betty and Bob.

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With Bob and her mother Elsie.

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Preserving Film Slides

As I've mentioned several times over the past few months, I inherited many boxes of vintage family film slides in September. Over the past month, I have been using my film scanner to scan, edit and preserve these slides. It has been a tedious process, but it is one that is well worth the time because so many of the images haven't been seen for 50 years. I was not yet born when my family lived in Palos Verdes, California. My family previously lived in Anchorage, Alaska (my grandparents and mother) and Green Mills, Ohio (my grandparents, great-grandparents and great-great-grandparents). As I never spent time in either of those places but heard about them growing up, these images are like a time machine that has taken me back through history to meet the people I never had the opportunity to know and see the places I wasn't able to experience first-hand. It has been a truly incredible, almost out-of-body experience. After sharing this project with family, friends and neighbors, I have been surprised by how many of them have similar boxes of slides that are decaying in their closets and attics. The combination of their stories and my own have inspired me to offer film and photo scanning, editing and archiving as services of Gerald & Joan when our new website launches later this season. My own family's stories have become such an integral part of this blog that it only seems fitting that the preservation of other people's stories should be a part of Gerald & Joan as well.

Here are just a few of the people and places I've seen lately:

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My great-grandmother's second husband, Kent W. Benham, at their home in Palos Verdes, California.

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Joan, Julie and Elsie in Palos Verdes, California.

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Elsie with her granddaughters, Cheri and Julie, in Green Mills, Ohio, several years before their move to California.

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Elsie visiting Julie in Anchorage, Alaska.

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Julie visiting her grandfather Clyde in Green Mills, Ohio shortly before his passing.

Introducing the Elysa Birth Announcement

It seems fitting that our first birth announcement would be for our beautiful niece Elysa. Working with the same guidelines as their family Christmas card, we knew we wanted a flat card with rounded corners, matte finish and several photos of Baby Elysa with her big sister Eliza. Pink was the obvious color choice. The exact colors came from the girls' shirts and Elysa's hair bow. Big white polka dots and some hand-drawn ribbons add some whimsy, while the big photo polka dot on the back of the card captures the true joy that exists in Eliza -- she loves her baby sister so much. We'll be back on Friday with one more Gerald and Joan project to cap off our first year!

Happy New Year, everyone!

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Sugar Plum Christmas Cards

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December -- the entire year actually -- has been a blur. As we try to make sense of the very first year of Gerald & Joan, we wanted to share a few of our latest projects. This Christmas card was custom designed for my sister-in-law's family. She wanted a flat card with rounded corners, matte finish and a family photo on the front. Beyond that, she didn't have any requests. I hand-drew the "Merry and Bright," and then added the red, green and white "sugar plums" across the front and back. We added just the tiniest filter to the photo to enhance the warm glow of the photo. Everything about this project says happy and blessed -- which is exactly how they are in real life. We were really pleased with the results.

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We'll be back on Wednesday with their youngest daughter's birth announcements! :)