Heirlooms

Family Stories: Joan Fay Stroup

There are few people who have had more influence on my life than my grandmother Joan. She and I shared a middle name as well as a special bond from the day I was born. I arrived during an especially dark period in her life. Her husband and true love was dying of cancer at only 50 years old. When he passed away weeks before my first birthday, the gaping hole he left behind could not be filled, but she found joy in spending time with her only daughter and first granddaughter. I'm not sure if our bond was born from that devastating loss or if it came from something else. Ironically, she shared a similar connection with her grandmother Laura, and it is Laura's name that comes before Fay to make up my middle name. I like to think those names and the relationships that were attached to them served as a starting point for the role they would play in my life. Perhaps they are part of the reason I'm here today, focusing on a business that carries her name and sharing these images from her childhood. I'm in the progress of getting these printed and framed to hang on the family wall in our new house. I have so many pictures that I think we may have more than one family wall, but that's okay because I prefer family photographs to most other artwork anyway. They are so special to me. joan1

Baby Joan in 1934

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Joan with her beloved dog, Sandy.

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Joan (on the right) with a friend.

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Those curls...

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Posing with her tennis racket.

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With her brother Bob.

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With Bob and her older sister Betty.

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Baby Joan with Betty and Bob.

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With Bob and her mother Elsie.

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Collections: Vintage Chandeliers

Over the Christmas break, Jonathan hung our vintage chandeliers. Three of them are family heirlooms that previously hung in Joan's house. When my mother decided to list the house in 2010, I begged her to take down the chandeliers. One of them dates to 1960 and originally hung at my great-grandmother's house in Palos Verdes, and my grandparents bought the other two when they built the Cerritos house in 1973. Needless to say, the chandeliers came down, and two of them have been in storage ever since. The other hung in our living room, along with the other vintage chandelier that Jonathan and I found at Stars Antique Market in Hermosa Beach (walking distance from Palos Verdes) in 2008 for $150. It was a very special moment when they came out of the boxes. I feel as though we've been especially close to my grandmother and great-grandmother this year, but having their chandeliers hanging in our home brings them even closer.

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Joan's chandelier now hangs in our dining room.

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Elsie's chandelier now hangs in our entry way.

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Joan's chandelier now hangs in our living room. This chandelier also hung in the living room of our old house. It plugs into the wall. The picture in the background is Elsie at 21, taken in 1921. It previously hung in the foyer of Joan's house, along with the big chandelier that is now in our dining room.

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The chandelier that Jonathan and I found in Hermosa Beach, California in 2009 now hangs in our guest bedroom.

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Family Stories: Vintage Christmas

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My mom and Joan decorating the Christmas tree at their home in Cerritos, California in 1981.

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My mom and Santa. See more santa pictures.

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The family Christmas tree in Palos Verdes, California in the late '60s.

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My mom in Palos Verdes in the mid '60s.

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My mom's little Christmas tree. Notice Davy Jones on the wall.

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Elsie preparing the table for Christmas dessert.

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My mom and her bear on Christmas. That little rocking chair is now at our house.

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Christmas dinner with my mom's sister Betty, her daughter Cheri and her husband Bob.

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My mom and her step-grandfather, Mr. B, in front of their Palos Verdes home.

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Vintage Christmas balls in the living room in Palos Verdes and the couch that I still dream about. My mom has the lamp and coffee table. Elsie always put her Christmas cards on the coffee table, and my grandmother continued that tradition with the table was in her home.

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Joan and my mom in Alaska in 1957.